Rational good faith

I know a person who claims to great principles, when things beyond her expectations, she will set a principle. For example, when the wrong thing to her staff, she would without thinking of the accusations, rather West Point, "no reason" to "touch", but, when she made a mistake, she can not say that they boasted of this professional It seems their unprofessional mistakes can forgive and forget not forgive their staff as professional and committed no wrong. This is typical thinking and behavior inconsistent with typical hypocrisy, demanding of others, relaxed demands on themselves.

Many people have such a declaration: this is my principle! Such a declaration to block the other's resistance, to let their actions become a matter of course. When we encounter such a declaration, even a bit arrogant to know it a bit unreasonable, but still could do nothing. Of course, we are often declared to the others with their principles and do not give a single cent retreat. That is, the so-called principle of our life is full of hypocrisy, because in principle only in safeguarding their own interests with the bottom line in the final analysis, Yi or for the themselves, when this principle on his body, it often becomes not on then the principle. This of course can not just thinking, which requires us to do in good faith reason to require others to demand their own standards.

My aunt has a child. He is the son who are poor performance and very naughty. My aunt beaten numerous times in their conduct, the conscious act like this is his son will not be effective, and realized that if her love of education will have good results. However, her love of education required to change his bad temper, and reading childcare books, thinking about his son at this age, which would require her dedication. Unfortunately, her way of thinking forever remain in his mind, his son's performance remained, unruly still, her method of education has remained. No change in their method, but also on how to let others change? !

There is a saying: The world is changing everything, the only constant is change. Although everything is changing, but change is not necessarily willing to accept the things that people, especially the need to stick to the principles of their faith and fight the change is unwelcome. Moreover, the change in heart will not be short-lived, it must be the product of layers of pain. Although we have been able to use a rational understanding of their own ignorance humility, understand their thinking in all kinds of criticism, and already have a rational courage, but because change is not an easy thing, persistent need to play a tremendous role.

I'm Li peijuan, one of my group mambers. My ID number is 1071119953